About being idealistic...
recently i had encounter a issue that makes me reflect if one (me) is being idealistic.. sadly it was by deciding to determinate a relationship with a man which last about 5 months ....it was what..my fifth serious relationship on the record..
being picky seems to be a sign of thinking things are not perfect enough...seemingly.. one cant help being picky if he/she is always comparing the significant others with the idleal life partner image.
- lack of international perspectives visions..
- think inside the box..
- not classy enough..
- not intelletually smart enough to qualify..
- not able able to laugh or participate things / arts/ humor that happen around the enviroment.
-dont like to drive in the city...despite as a car owner..
- possibly buying a house in the city i dislike..
however as a positive perspective on pros side..
- steady income
-wants to get married
- reasnably handsome enough.
- has a rutine/ regular life style.
- likes to make schedule for things
- spending efforts to hang out with my folks
why cant a girl like me just settle with a guy like this.. ? what do i want? always want more than i can get ? not ... enough.. could be more...
sometimes things juts doesnt fit as much as you wants them to be into those places... why cant one compromise? why cant we just satisfy with each other.. and say ok thats it .. lets put it an end for the mate searching , you and i are a pair from now on..
why we are always so demending? who are we comparing to?
cause we deserves better. we are smart and simply better than settleing with this guy <-- see, idealistic.
I heard one saying before <---- we need very little, but we always want more.
i shall say we always want more, when we had bend over..lol ~ sounds 18+
seriously...am i being idealistic...? where is the balence? ? show me and tell me.
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